The Kingdom Spouse Journey | Obey Before Play
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Intro
Marriage is one of the most sacred and life-changing things that can occur in one’s life so it’s pretty obvious that God wants to be involved in the process. The glorification of marriage in America has brought much destruction to families because people rushed and got married for the wrong reasons and never even sought God about what He thinks, and the kids paid the price.
If you find yourself in a potential Kingdom Spouse Journey you may find yourself stretched, but God’s ways are not man’s ways. Life is complicated, and there’s an enemy out to kill, steal, and destroy. You will need to dive deeper and change your life in accordance with God’s ways for a God-ordained union to have a chance at being successful.
A Worldly Marriage?
A worldly marriage occurs when God’s leading is not taken into account. Love is complicated and I think many confuse the feeling with lustful desires, infatuation, and worldly things that peg one’s ego and pride. An example would be women marrying for money so they can live a lavish lifestyle to impress their friends and family. Does she love her husband or the lifestyle he can provide? Men marrying for looks, for sex, to also impress their friends and family, viewing the woman as an object but spiritually and mentally there is no connection to her.
However, not all marriages that were not prayed about, were not God-ordained. Sometimes God brings two people together in the confines of worldly structures or perceptions. So I wanted to say that as not to offend those that got married before they gave their lives to Christ. Obviously though, time will reveal the truth.
Is it a mystery why the divorce rate is so high in America? Not at all, it’s actually easy to understand. Many people also have a competition mindset with their friends and family. Who will get married first? Who’s spouse will be better looking or have more money? Many people view their marriage partner as just a checklist.
The Missing Link | A Spiritual Beacon
So how does God bring two people together on this crazy planet where things make less sense each day and how do the two of them recognize each other? I think the only answer it can be is a spiritual connection, but not a complete one. Completion would occur after consummation. When the two people are near each other there will be a strong feeling that can’t quite be described. In one sense, you desire to be close to the person and get to know them, and in another sense you want to run and protect yourself from potential rejection or embarrassment.
The stronger your feelings for someone are, the more intense the fear of losing them will be. God can also reveal your person years before you meet them via dreams and synchronicities, and while this sounds cool, it only adds more to the intensity and fear.
22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
Are you seeing the number 222 a lot? When we read the verse above we should consider how this might look in current day. Eve was a part of Adam as she was made from one of his ribs, they had an inner-connection. Also for the ladies out there, just to be kind of funny, God ‘brought’ Eve ‘to’ Adam.
So for men out there waiting for the right woman to show up, God will present her to you but Adam still had to pursue Eve, or maybe she threw herself at him, who knows? So make sure you don’t let her slip away but still, it’s a two way deal, can’t be one-sided.
For the ladies, make sure you have an inviting presence and keep-in mind things like games, rejection tests, rejection, lack of communication, unfriending, blocking on social media, other tests, and other manipulative and disrespectful behaviors could very easily stop any respectable man in his tracks in pursuing you as you’re tying his hands while at the same time stabbing him in the back. You can’t treat your God-ordained person as you would just anyone, this is a whole different dynamic, and God is watching intentions of the heart. He will separate you two like oil and water if you can’t have pure motives. This is for His glory, not ours.
Your Mirror | God’s Glory
The person God has for you will invoke a lot of feelings and insecurities within you. They become a mirror to you in a sense because the intensity of feelings causes you to reflect on your own life and yourself. I believe this is by design because God is shinning a light on things that should be worked on. If a man is overweight, he should hit the gym, if a woman has an alcohol problem she needs to fix that.
These are simple examples but the idea is that you’re to focus on becoming the best version of yourself and stronger so that when you two come together God’s glory will be on your marriage for all to see! It’s God saying, “Look at this couple who serves Me, watch what I will do with them!”.
Deception and Warfare | Will You Fight?
If God-ordained spouses are not a real thing then why did the enemy create a counterfeit New Age concept called Twin Flames to deceive and distract people by getting guidance from sources other than God? I linked the Reddit forum only so you can see proof that people are going through something they can’t explain. The enemy will pull out all the stops to prevent God-ordained spouses from coming together.
The enemy will use anything and anybody available to do so. If you have many friends and followers, and they have past trauma, unclean spirits, and open doors, the enemy will try to use them and their demons against you two.
This can be people talking crap about your person, gossip, smear campaigns, lies, witchcraft, spell work, and hidden agendas. Understand that there are many people who are unhappy, have unhappy marriages, and are single themselves.
If you start sharing to them about a spiritual journey that you feel God has you on with someone specific they may get jealous, envious, and do whatever it takes to kill it because why should you be happy when they’re not?
5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper,
And every tongue which rises against you in judgment
You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord,
And their righteousness is from Me,”
Says the Lord.
God’s Choice For Your Marriage?
A female minister I follow, Clare Du Bois, claims she receives visitations from the Lord similar to that recorded in the life and diary of Saint Maria Faustina Kowalska, and I found her ministry after praying over my life the following verse:
3 ‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’
Below are some words claimed to be from Jesus to her in Clare’s message titled: God’s Choice For Your Marriage
“I have only your best interests in mind, My people, but many of you duck and dodge My warnings, because your flesh dominates your thinking. Your greatest protection from these errors is purity of heart, mind and body. When you are purified, you set standards that–if properly protected and maintained–will serve you for your entire lives.
“There are many choices you will refuse to make because you have chosen Purity as your standard. You will continually, in all areas of your lives, apply those standards before engaging anything of importance in your environment. Some overestimate their strength and open themselves to occasions of sin–and then it is too late. A bondage has already been formed.
“Notice I said, a ‘bondage,’ not a ‘bond.’ Men form bondages; I form bonds. As it is written, “Let no man separate what God has joined.”
“But so many have joined themselves to what I did not choose for them and live in unhappy marriages, lessening their children’s chances of happy marriages. And the sin gets passed from generation to generation, until one of them chooses to live in obedience to Me and waits for the right partner to marry.
“Consider, My people. Are you in a relationship that has caused you more grief than joy? Have you created a bondage to this person by not waiting to have sexual relations? Are you thinking, ‘This is my last chance for happiness in marriage; I am getting too old?’ Let me assure you, that is a lie from Satan, spoken over you to cause you to enter into a tragic relationship. It is never too late for you and the longer you wait, the greater your reward.“
Kingdom Marriage | Purpose
While you desire to be with your kingdom partner, remember that God’s choice still has freewill of their own. It’s possible that the marriage may not occur at all if either one of you does not work on their issues. God wants to protect both of you and the last thing He wants is one of you to damage the other.
The enemy has already damaged us in many ways, so the union is supposed to be one of healing. One should ask if they’re attracted to toxic traits, is if that’s the enemy at work? There will be no healing with a partner afflicted with toxic traits that does NOT get deliverance. Ultimately a kingdom marriage is all for the purposes of God to bring souls into the Kingdom, as two are greater than one. This purpose I believe will be what keeps the two together in the long run, since worldly pursuits will leave the soul dry, but a couple steeped into God will thrive and remain healthy and strong.
You can get through this journey but even if it all fails, just remember, God can always do better than His previous gift, just don’t give up on God. This is a fallen world, don’t lose yourself if something fails, it could also just be a precursor or training to the real thing.
Struggles After Union | Temptations
When and if you both do come together finally before marriage things may get kind of weird. The enemy will throw temptations at you two to commit sin, sex before marriage which will be something God will not be happy about and your relationship’s protection will have holes in it and the enemy can further sift both of you.
So be careful not to get too crazy with each other too early. Also, it will be harder than normal due to the fact that you two have a spiritual connection. So while this will make intercourse far more enjoyable, it will definitely make things harder in the preparation process in being abstinent.
Yeah, this is like I said, “not for the weak”. You’re going to be tested and go through a lot but it’s all for the greater good, and with God and prayer you can get through it.
“True love is not about instant gratification, but about building something worth waiting for.”
“Sex is a gift to be shared after a promise has been made and a covenant has been established. When it’s done in the context of marriage, it creates a deep, lifelong bond.”
Conclusion
This is a post not many will want to read, it will anger many. It will be an eye opener but I wasn’t put on Earth to be a people pleaser, but to do the work presented to me. I’ve remained a virgin and no illegal drug use my whole life. I am 32 now and I know now my standing is because I have the Generational Curse Breaker Anointing on my life to repair my family line. Also, STDs are terrifying, so there’s that. I’ve waited for the right woman to appear and I know it will be a woman that will treat me well, will also choose me, also be living in purity, and communicate with me when needed, very minimum requirements for any God-grounded relationship. It’s really just that simple and if that’s hard to understand then something is wrong. Here is the music for this entry.
My name is Dex Sandel, author at WinReflection.
I am a Christian, conservative, and truth seeker that is not afraid to be vocal on important or controversial issues, silence leads to death. When a person has that courage the enemy tries to send haters and wolves in sheep’s clothing their way. There are many rewards earned in Heaven for those that refuse to give up. There’s more to life than the worldly status quo and that’s why many are sad and depressed, they’re suffocating! Truth and purpose can bring fresh air into one’s life and that’s my mission.
The best is yet to come, and nothing can stop what’s coming!
John 3:16: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
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